hey there,
well honestly i'm the kind of girl that wouldn't go back with any guy or give him a second chance. But recently i found someone who's changed that . Lets call him Joe. Well i have Joe in one of my classes. i'd never really noted Joe until recently when he sat next to my group. i mean he's not the type of guy i guess you can say that would make you look twice but to me i think he's great and a nice guy and he's sorta perfect. Even though , okay i'll admit , im jelous. I mean wouldn't you if you saw a guy you liked talking to another girl. i mean i'm not jelous of her i'm jelous of what they have and the communication. I mean i'm not the type of girl thats shy around other guys, but for some reason with him i have no idea what to say or do. but what i'm getting at haha! yeahh finally the point of this. Well if you really like a guy or your attracted to him you should deffinetely go talk to him instead of just look at him an dwonder what could have been.
okayy so the advice:
if your in a relationship first of all you shouldn't be talking to any other people but if you are and you're not talking to them in a friendly way or manner you have to stop. because than you risk yourself and the other person your talking getting hurt, plus also the person your in a relationship could be hurt. guys and girls both do this . but its usually more common for a guy to have the "friend" that they flirt with while being in a relationship. Ladies! Listen up open your eyes your honestly nothing but the rebound chick or the bootey call . If he really liked you don't you think he would have left his girlfriend by now for you? Even if you feel like you too are incredibly close and can tell each other everything an have even gotten into an intimate conversation , it doesnt mean anything because he's still with his girlfriend. Even if he tells youhe's going to leave it's probably a lie if he hasn't done it already. Don't wait around for a guy . There's plenty of more guys out there in the world don't wait for that guy move on with your life. Its now or never. You should deffinetley let him go. Even if you think every time you have confided to him something no one else knows about you or he has done the same with you it doesn't mean your one step closer to him. all it means is he needs someone to lay out all his problems on even though he likes the fact that he has you on the back burner. instead of wasting your time with him you should spend your time talking to guys who are actually available who will make you their girlfriend or number 1 girl.
now if your wondering on getting back with your ex-boyfriend . girlfriend let it go . same goes for guys . even if tou can't stop thinking about him the cold hard truth is it's a waste of your time to be clingy to a guy that has already moved on. it's time to let him go sure it will take a you a while to get over him but the first steps you can take to begin the process is : stop driving by his house (if you do that) or try to purposely go in the direction you know you're going to see him. passing him by or seeing him well only remind you of that good times you had . hide him on myspace or facebook w.e it is. and delete his number from your phone. so in other words try to have little or no contact with him . and don't ever try to be friends right after the breakup you both need time .
this will only work if you keep up with these simple steps.
okay so finally, the hot guy you've always wanted to talk to or the guy you flirt wirth all the time over facebook or text messages. :)
so if you flirt with him over facebook or text messaging and you get excited everytime you see his name pop upp or your heart beats faster eveyrtime you hear his name and you want something more . GO FOR IT! and if he's your friend GO FOR IT! if you too are really good friends your friendship could deffinetly survive this . and later on you could laugh about it .
